I think now a days it is very easy to loose yourself in a relationship. It’s also very easy to let singleness define who you are. With that comes your value,joy,and worth being based in the relationship or lack there of and that’s not right.
Instead of letting your status defined who we are, we should let it refine us. Let me explain what I mean. When I was single, I would feel my heart listening to what God had to say about my singleness. How my singleness wasn’t punishment, rather a time for Him to prepare a man’s heart for me and mine for him. My heart also heard things about my value, my joy, and my worth, none of which were based on my relationship, but in my ability to trust God and His timing.
Now that I’m crazy in love, I feel my heart listening to what God is saying about being in a relationship.About being faithful, honest, respectful, and ultimately I feel my heart transforming into one of a wife and mother. I also hear it refining in a way where I am doing things for the relationship, not because of the relationship.
MORAL OF THE STORY
Dont let your relationship status define who you are. Your value is there whether you’re a girlfriend or single and ready to mingle. Don’t let it define you. Let it refine what your heart is hearing God say.
XOXO you’re worthy